The Beautiful Challenge of Simple Things

In today’s fast-paced world, we’re often encouraged to simplify—declutter our homes, streamline our schedules, and strip life down to what really matters. And while I love the idea of simplicity, I’ve learned an important truth: simple doesn’t always mean easy. In fact, simple can sometimes be the hardest thing of all.

One of our family mottos is Do Hard Things. It’s a reminder that just because something is challenging doesn’t mean it’s not worth doing. And often, the simplest things in life—those that bring the most joy and meaning—are the very things that require the most effort.

Take, for example, apologizing to someone you’ve hurt. The concept is simple: say you’re sorry and mean it. But anyone who has wrestled with pride, shame, or fear knows that offering a genuine apology can feel anything but easy. It requires vulnerability, humility, and courage—three things that are never effortless.

Or think about parenting. The most important aspects of raising children are beautifully simple: show up, love them unconditionally, and guide them to become kind, resilient people. But if you’re a parent, you know just how hard those “simple” things can be on days when patience is thin, sleep is scarce, and challenges abound.

Even in our daily lives, simplicity often asks more of us than we expect. Eating healthier? Simple in theory, but resisting late-night cravings or meal prepping after a long day takes effort. Pursuing a dream or goal? It’s a straightforward idea, but overcoming self-doubt, setbacks, and fear of failure is where the real challenge lies.

That’s where Do Hard Things comes in. It’s a rallying cry in our family—a reminder to lean into the discomfort of hard work, to embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, and to find pride in doing what isn’t easy.

Doing hard things doesn’t mean we have to tackle every mountain at once. Sometimes, it’s as small as taking the first step—having a tough conversation, trying again after failing, or simply showing up when you don’t feel like it. Each time we choose to do the hard thing, we build resilience, strength, and confidence.

And here’s the beauty: hard things have a way of shaping us into better versions of ourselves. They teach us patience, persistence, and the value of pushing through discomfort. They show us that the things worth having—connection, growth, fulfillment—don’t come from taking the easy route.

So, the next time you find yourself thinking, “This is harder than I thought it would be,” remind yourself that simple doesn’t mean easy—and that’s okay. It’s in doing the hard things that we discover our strength, our purpose, and what truly matters.

What’s a hard thing you’ve done recently that turned out to be worth it? I’d love to hear your story in the comments below. Let’s celebrate the beauty of choosing to do hard things, one step at a time.

Keep doing the hard things—you’re stronger than you know.

Warmly,

Kelly